1/30/23

Flourish: The Discipline of Forgiveness

THE DISCIPLINE OF FORGIVENESS

Main Scripture: Matthew 18:21-35

Additional Scriptures: John 16:7-11, 1 John 4:11, 1 Corinthians 13:5, 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, 1 Peter 4:8, Colossians 3:13

POINTS:

  • We all owe a debt to God that we can never repay.

  • Our debt of sin doesn’t just affect us it affects those around us.

  • The Holy Spirit brings us into the courtroom and puts us on the stand so that we can see we have a debt that can never be repaid.

  • Jesus pays the debt we owe God through His sacrifice on the cross.

  • We are to extend the same forgiveness we receive from Christ to others.

  • The mental courtroom is where we place our performance and the performance of others on trial.

  • The mental courtroom is a form of self-torture. Unforgiveness tortures us.

  • When we build our case against others we also build the debt they owe us, which means we will have more to forgive.

  • Once you are in a mental courtroom with one person you will eventually be in there with more and more people.

  • The people close to you feel your bitterness or shame and therefore end up being tortured by your unforgiveness.

  • The Mental courtroom creates ruts in our brains, we quite literally get stuck in a rut. These ruts become enemy strongholds.

  • The divine weapons that demolish the enemy strongholds in our minds are kindness (compassion) and forgiveness = Love.

  • Forgiveness is exercising the compassion of God by paying the debt yourself.

  • To forgive is to persist in love.

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